[S.T.D.]

Dear Naina_Marbus,

What I posted was the dilemma of a NRI Gujjubhai who is unable to forget India and fully merge with US. It is "severe" nostalgia with no solution. Bur what you have posted is a different cup of tea. The suffering of the writer of that piece of a letter can be any where. He can be even in India somewhere in the north. To get a girl who loves you(and whom you too love) as your wife is a rare gift of God. If that girl happens to be matured enough to- understand that people are made of positive and negative qualities, that old people have an ego which has also grown proportionate to their age, that people are to be loved despite their negative qualities, that people are just to be forgiven and whatever they have done to her is to be forgotten- then such a wife is the rarest of gift from God. Those who are not blessed with such a gift have to suffer and carry the burden.

I am blessed and so I am writing this.

Cheers.