[Lillie_Steins]

WHEN THE THREAD GETS EXTEND ,MORE OPINION ,PERSONAL EXPERIENCE ARE SHARED.GOOD APART, AS STATED ABOVE IN THIS TOPIC ,GIRLS WITH JEANS ,T.SHIRT ,PRE-MARITAL SEX ,ALL ARE STATED AS WESTERN STYLE ONLY .SO I DO NOT MEAN THE COMFORT OF WEARING THE CLOTHES HERE,PLS MIND IT , DATING ,PRE .MS ,ARE ONLY OF WESTERN LIFE OF LIVING TOGETHER,ARE JUST OR ONLY FOLLOWED BY SOME ,FEW GROUPS NOT THE WHOLE PEOPLE HERE .THEN COMES THE FINAL RITUAL RITES ,OMG !!! ONCE WHEN THIS ISSUE WAS DISCUSSED WITH KANCHI MAHAPERIWA ,ie,PEOPLE WITH NO ISSUE ,PARENTS WITH ONLY GIRLS ,SO QUESTION RAISED FOR THEIR FINAL RITUALS ,SO THE HOLY SAINT STATED TO START A PROCEDURE DONE IN THE PRESENCE OF LORD SUN ,AND LATER ALL GURUS HOLY ADISHANKARA, MADAVAAR ,SRI RAMANUJAR. THE PINDAM IS OFFERED WITH THE INITAL CONCERN WITH LORD MAHAGANAPATHY.THE PERSON GOTHRUM THEIR ANCESTORS ALL DONE BY PROPER FORMAT,I HAVE PERSONALLY WITNESSED THIS IN MADIYA KAILASH TEMPLE IN ADAYAR,CHENNAI.(any body with doubt can clarify it).SO THIS IS THE PROCEDURE,BUT NOW SO MANY NRI ,BRAHMIN IN ABROAD,GETTING ENROLLED SINCE THEY HAVE TIME CRISIS,THEY DO NOT HAVE FACILITY TO DO SO.,THEY CANNOT PREPARE SO MANY FOOD ITEMS ON THAT DAY.etc etc. EVEN NOW I FEEL THAT SOME HOW THEY MEET OUT THEIR DUTIES AT LEAST.(but the mother/lady who participate for this shardham feels very emotionally ,even with sons i cannot do this ).NEXT ABOUT THE BAJANS , SLOGAMN CHANTING I DO NOT INTENTED TO SAY ALL ,BUT FEW DOES IT AS PARTY ,GE TOGETHER MANNER,LATER SNAPS FORWARD IN FACE BOOK WE HAD JOLLY WEEKEND IN MR-- HOUSE FOR VISHNU SAHASRANAMAN PRAYANAM. SO INTENTION MAY BE GOOD BUT THEIR IS ATTITUDE OVER LAPPING.