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**Lillie_Steins** · 08-08-2012, 09:32 AM

A marriage is a business transaction. Always has, always will be. Both parties have to bring something to the table to be able to negotiate successfully.

Mr.Biswa, in today's world, what to be considered worth to bring to the table to be able to negotiate successfully seem to be more challenging and probably confusing and shocking!!!

What may be found/considered as successful negotiation may turn out to be the most wrong, foolish and meaningless negotiation after marriage, sooner or later.

Talking big and making big promises and acceptances to make each other happy and close the deal successfully in order to get married, expecting great benefits in return from each other has turned many upside down.

Today many are the boys and girls who don't have inclination towards understanding other as a same human as self, understanding the attitude and characteristics of the other, understanding and accepting the life together in harmony etc..etc. They neither have the patience nor the tolerance to live together with what ever they could achieve and lose together. All they want is a perfect Trial Balance. "What have I gained from you and What have you gained from me as husband and wife?" at each and every stage of life together has become the norm.

When the trial balance turns out to be negative, there comes Divorce handy!!!! There can be many IFs and Buts, many accusations, many justifying demands/needs from the spouse from one's rational mind and so called true heart etc.etc that easily prompts them to opt for Divorce.

Ironically, many fail to realize as when Divorce is most warranted!!!

08-08-2012, 09:32 AM	#37
Lillie_Steins Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 4,508 Senior Member	A marriage is a business transaction. Always has, always will be. Both parties have to bring something to the table to be able to negotiate successfully. Mr.Biswa, in today's world, what to be considered worth to bring to the table to be able to negotiate successfully seem to be more challenging and probably confusing and shocking!!! What may be found/considered as successful negotiation may turn out to be the most wrong, foolish and meaningless negotiation after marriage, sooner or later. Talking big and making big promises and acceptances to make each other happy and close the deal successfully in order to get married, expecting great benefits in return from each other has turned many upside down. Today many are the boys and girls who don't have inclination towards understanding other as a same human as self, understanding the attitude and characteristics of the other, understanding and accepting the life together in harmony etc..etc. They neither have the patience nor the tolerance to live together with what ever they could achieve and lose together. All they want is a perfect Trial Balance. "What have I gained from you and What have you gained from me as husband and wife?" at each and every stage of life together has become the norm. When the trial balance turns out to be negative, there comes Divorce handy!!!! There can be many IFs and Buts, many accusations, many justifying demands/needs from the spouse from one's rational mind and so called true heart etc.etc that easily prompts them to opt for Divorce. Ironically, many fail to realize as when Divorce is most warranted!!!
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