[LottiFurmann]

If parents have the tendencies to keep doing mischief with neighbors with the knowledge of their growing kids, many a chance of these kids developing such attitude


If parents have the tendencies to keep shouting and abusing each other in front of their children, many a chance of children doing the same among siblings and towards their parents too.


If parents tend to be hostile towards others at the drop of a hat and misguide the kids, stating that, this is the only way to win yourself, many a chance of children developing the same attitude


If parents tend to criticize every other for every thing and keep exposing their such criticism to their children with their own justifications, many a chance of children doing the same as they grow, to the extent of their level.


If parents themselves are week and meek and keep scaring their kids, thinking they are guiding their kids correctly in order to keep them scratch free, many a chance of children remaining week and meek and develop inferior complexity, deep within themselves.

If parents tend to ridicule others in front of their children and tend to ridicule their own children often, many a chance of children turning introvert, shy, fearful and keeping themselves away from the crowd. By the time kinds take charge of their own in right direction (that mostly happens after or during the late teen age only), the kids might have lost their precious time and chances of easy and timely advancements.



If parents tend to be appreciating and encouraging their kids for every tiniest details, kids tend to develop interest, confidence and expertise.


If parents be paradigm of honestly, discipline, orderliness, love, generosity, friendliness, humanity, sympathy, righteousness etc..etc, children tend to grasp the same and develop themselves into such personality.


East or West, North or South, the above statements in line with OP, is the universal truth. And through out the globe, parents are expected to be the best parents of their kids.


IMO, OP is very appreciable. It gives a good moral message to the parents and would be parents. The statements in OP can be well taken in the right spirit and with clear mind, without any confusions and contradictions.

IMO, OP is also an eye opener for many children who have closed their eyes and mind with their unshakable faith/belief that, just what ever their parents know, feel and share with them are the only and the only Gospel Truth, the reality and the only possibility.


Children are many who are lacking with confidence and over all inter personality skills, Tend to be desperately looking out and finding others parents through Online Chat or emails or phone calls, in order to keep themselves boosted and guided. Because, unfortunately they could not have their parents doing the same to them right from their growing process.


Children who lacks ideal / desirable qualities/personality, end up learning by looking at others, that many a times for many children, is a long process, hard process and seem to be a confused process (depending on how much they learned from parents and how much are they lacking). Because, unfortunately such children could not have their parents capable to mold them in right manner, right from their growing process.


Let us not confuse our self with the moral message in OP and establish wrongly that, the OP is justifying the confused thoughts to already confused minds.