[Slonopotam845]

The op remains me my friends life story.but why always blame girls ? guys are not dumm,ayyo pavam cases. they know very well what will happen if they choose the right person ,so the story screen play ,direction ,inital producer they take up.(guys) what i meant is women /girls even though strong in mental power ,they are emotinal bundle, when being tapped they get trapped .let me narrate it, she was in her final year finishing stage ,mudillar ,got engaged to IAS in delhi ,inivations being distbuted process, they were( muslim boy, girl) were known for few years,a muslim guy having a small fancy shop, like cinema got register their marriage ,and when girls parent went to their home town for kulla deviam ,relatives ,they eloped.now she is the ATM machine for the family ,that muslim guy is / was too smart .he does not go for proper work ,she bears all expenses.her parents were shocked, even for her delivery her father did not turned up ,her mom was allowed later, she (my friend) was instructed not to talk ,meet ther parents, yes by the way she got converted a day before her marriage.now she lives as maadil male poonai life ,she brakes into tears any time regard less of any issues.even her inlaws are not too good.girls / women has to be openly frank to discuss the views in her home.parents has explain the ill effects of it .