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Old 04-13-2006, 11:06 PM   #20
Lillie_Steins

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Lets work as a team to abolish dowry! The solution lies in our hands. How can we as individual contribute to the destruction of dowry? The answer is to analyze our role in this society and how we play our role.

FOR MEN:
1) Are u happy to be looked upon like items sold in market? Did u realise u are priced and traded as per the cost determined, by the society for ur social background and education?
2) Please feel ASHAMED TO BE BRANDED AS PRODUCTS SOLD, to be bought by affordable girls and their parents.
3) You are inviting a partner to share ur life and love. She is equal to you in everyway. Neither have u done a sacrifice by marrying her nor has she, so where is the question of money involved? Love her for her character, not for her money.
4) The aspirations and aims, should be achieved by one's own hard efforts. The pride of touching ur dreams, with your own dedication is unique. TRY FOR IT.
5) Woman fulfills your needs as regards food, laundry, house-maintenance, sex, bear your children, guard the house, earn for you. All those people who ask dowry, with ur clever mathematical skill, if u calculate monetarily, U OWE A SUBSTANTIAL AMOUNT TO YOUR WIFE.
6) In olden days, there used to be Contests in various forms, to test the skills of men in the fields of intelligence, strength, character and appeal. Guess you fall into the lucky era where YOU assess the girl in multiple aspects. agree with all the stuff. i really like the song from ABCD, barathi-yin arimugam!

anbu thanthu arivu thanthu alagana pen thanthal
athukkum keppan kooli

car-um thanthu seerum thanthu sila laksham thantha than
tharuvan thanga thaali

karupaiya nirappidathan panapaiya kekkiriye
manitha sol unakkenna peru? vekka kedu!

coat-u potta mappilaikku rate-u konjam jasthi endral
indukku peru enna? aan vibacharam! ithu abacharam!

anbu thanthu arivu thanthu alagana pen thanthal
athukkum keppan kooli
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