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**Raj_Copi_Jin** · 04-02-2006, 09:00 AM

FOR BRIDE'S PARENTS:
1) Parents should stop feeling burdened or sad to have an unmarried daughter at home. The purpose of female birth is NOT ONLY marriage and re-production.
2) The parents of the bride should take primary action in abolishing dowry. Do not accept to give dowry beyond ur monetary capacity. {Still better, SAY NO TO DOWRY)
3) Sending the unmarried daughter or divorcee for higher studies or a good job, would increase her confidence and your happiness.
4) When the bride faces inhuman tortures in her in-laws place, DO NOT SEND HER BACK, at the cost of her life. Re-marriage is not at all a weird idea to consider. just wanted to say that it's easy to say no to a groom and his family who ask for dowry but it's harder not to give dowry even if the groom and his family don't ask for it!

and abt remarriage, i agree.

and i thought i'd just mention that i thought sneha's character in ABCD was really nice! not only her remarriage, but the way she wears a white saree while her husband is alive as a protest against dowry! but then, luckily for her, he died in an accident. in real life, it would be better to divorce and get on with your life!

04-02-2006, 09:00 AM	#13
Raj_Copi_Jin Join Date Oct 2005 Age 48 Posts 4,533 Senior Member	FOR BRIDE'S PARENTS: 1) Parents should stop feeling burdened or sad to have an unmarried daughter at home. The purpose of female birth is NOT ONLY marriage and re-production. 2) The parents of the bride should take primary action in abolishing dowry. Do not accept to give dowry beyond ur monetary capacity. {Still better, SAY NO TO DOWRY) 3) Sending the unmarried daughter or divorcee for higher studies or a good job, would increase her confidence and your happiness. 4) When the bride faces inhuman tortures in her in-laws place, DO NOT SEND HER BACK, at the cost of her life. Re-marriage is not at all a weird idea to consider. just wanted to say that it's easy to say no to a groom and his family who ask for dowry but it's harder not to give dowry even if the groom and his family don't ask for it! and abt remarriage, i agree. and i thought i'd just mention that i thought sneha's character in ABCD was really nice! not only her remarriage, but the way she wears a white saree while her husband is alive as a protest against dowry! but then, luckily for her, he died in an accident. in real life, it would be better to divorce and get on with your life!
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