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ppl who dont believe in marriage might have been dump often in their past realationship , or have seen parents , sibling , friends been dump . it left a deep impact in their life . by the way , this is not a religion topic ...nice try though kryonlight , you always dump by your girlfriend or dump by your wife ? its ok if ppl tell me they dont believe in marriage ..but its not ok when ppl try to say marriage is delusion when marriage can be successful .


marriage has not become outdated, it's merely attitudes to marriage that people have. i don't know if there is a perfect someone for everyone and if there is if you'll ever find him or her but I know that when marriage does work and when it's worked at it's a beautiful, warm and fun thing. i don't believe in the fact that one should only have children when being married and that or that everyone in a relationship should end married. but what i actually strongly believe in cohabiting before marriage because it gives you the chance to know better the person you are with and to see if you can stand that person's attitudes and behaviours.

to conclude, marriage should never be a jail sentence but likewise it's not a holiday either. i think one should enter into it only when he understands what it really means and is prepared to put in the large amounts of effort required to keep it fresh, fun and he will take part in one of the most beautiful experiences on earth.


hope this song wont bring you back bad memories