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Old 03-05-2012, 10:45 AM   #13
gettoblaster

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The other day my boyfriend (who is also a coworker) and I were discussing how the bad habits of some people in the workplace is detrimental to their coworker's peace of mind and job performance, health safety in the kitchen (we work in a kitchen) and even their own happiness.

My boyfriend mentioned that because these people have been 'warned' many times about their behaviors, and they have not been fired yet, the threats become empty and they do not learn their lesson. They learn not to take their job responsibly, they drag down the performance of the kitchen, and they hurt others around them.

So the question was posed amongst each other, "If you were the boss of the kitchen, would you fire this person?" Firing the person will create many hard feelings but hopefully, a lesson learned and more responsibility gained.

So this is what I answered.

"Actions should be determined by what will bring about the most happiness and contentment for all parties whether it be now or for the future."

In that case, I would fire the person.

This is my mission for you: According to your experience and knowledge, pick apart that statement, adding or subtracting words, changing it, and making it better according to what you believe could make it more true. I want to see what happens!
Gassho

Firing the person or people will not bring them any happiness or contentment, in fact probably the opposite - they weill be unhappy and discontented, at least until they are able to learn and develop and not asct in the same way in the future. That may be the "harsh" way to teach - but is it the compassionate way at present?

Can that unhappiness and discontentment created be balanced by the increased happines and contentment of those remaining at work?

Firing them is not the compassionate act. It may, in fact, be the reverse - if there are people (wives, husbands, childeren, depending on the income for survival.

The compassionate act would be to talk to the whole team (Not just your boyfriend and including the employer) about the situation - trying to find a resolution where everyone keeps their jobs and harmony is restored to the team.
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