Why ask why? To be decisive about putting an end to doubt, question or uncertainity with regard to purpose, reason, cause, intention, justification or motive. The cause or intention underlying a given action or situation often brings closure and settlement. In mentality and emotionality we are comprised of our knowledge; Ever searching for more feeling and information to help us grow. If we didn't have knowledge we wouldn't have Love. If we don't add to our knowledge we stagnate. Stagnant love is like mold; it tastes funny and can make you sick. Thus, asking why is also to help complete the self. If we didn't ask ourselves why someone loves us, we wouldn't know what to continue to do to stay in loving relationships with them.