[ChrisGoldstein]

Oh girls, I am so guilty of this!! I am trying to learn not to be so reactionary!!! Its hard when certain people can overstep boundaries and be insulting. Hard to keep a cool head when someone is attacking you.

I guess I have to make clear boundaries in a calm way, and then if they proceed to breach these boundaries, then put the shutters up!!! They then learn their behaviour has consequences, and I just dont keep taking it and become a victim.

I just dont want to be around people that are constantly criticizing everyone and think everyone should do as they say.

A work in progress!!

kind regards
cazmayo