I have tried the "angels" and "guides" thing. I recently told her the name of her guide is Samuel. That really empowered her but not enough to pee in potty when its dark! lol Sam helped her find her shoes yesterday! YAY! Also I have begun to teach her how to make the red lights turn green in traffic. again YAY so momma don't have to ! I know it will take time and I thank everyone for helping