I think the issue for many is the word judge. It conjures up in the mind an image of a man in black robes pronouncing a sentence on a criminal. At the end of a man's life he will be judged by God Himself, this is for certain! (and this id the judging that we are warned not to do!) We are not to look at someone and condemn them as a bad person deserving of hell. However it is just foolishness to think that you can look at "any" situation and not "see" the right or the wrong of it! You know because of your own conscience if someone is doing right or wrong! We "must" see the truth and then leave the judging to God. We are allowed to pray for such a one however! Perhaps pray that The Lord will open their eyes! Pray that they will come to their senses! Pray that God will forgive their sins and at the same time know that we ourselves are filled with sin and passions Kyrie Eleision! InXC, Seraphim