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Prasertsit,
Thank-you for your post. I am now in Thailand again just trying to get a passport for my wife's 8 year old daughter and even that is proving to be difficult. Khonrai is correct. If you have the money, try the student visa route. I certainly do not have wealth but I have been saving up enough money to sponsor both my wife and daughter on a student visa. It seems our only possibility and I hope it works. I wish you all the luck. I am glad that you have found that true love sometimes comes in a package we hadn't considered.
I must say I hate labels such as "queer", "lesbian", "homosexual" or even "heterosexual" because for me, I just love who I love, be it man or woman. It just so happens that I am drawn to women more than men. People who are closed-minded to such ideals and try to push their religious constraints on people like us who open our hearts have no idea the lengths we must go to for love. I wonder, would some of those people give up everything for love like you are willing to do? Would they travel across the globe over and over to be with the one they love despite the loss of wages or detrimental effects on their job or time away from their family and friends? We are fighting for our hearts, and it is the hardest thing I have ever had to endure.
When people with full rights are enjoying birthdays and christmas' and watching their children take their first steps or are simply watching them grow up...we are losing out on all of that time. We are are far away missing the magical moments of life with them. Every time I return to Thailand m daughter is a little bit older and i've missed that time with her. It breaks my heart.
Good luck to you. I wish you all the best. We all deserve happiness. I am glad you found yours.