[mikeyyuiok]

Thanks for your compliment, but very frankly, I don't think I have a kinder heart than the average individual. I just don't want this issue to nag at the back of my mind for another 10years; that's kinda more self-serving in a way than altruistism, really

=) I can also be frankly with you...u sure have the kinder heart!!!! All these can't be measure if a person keep on comparing on and on. Knowing, Feeling and Doing, are also the 3 essential elements of life. Being able to repent upon mistakes will one day lead a person towards success...

For your case, it's even more remarkably admirable because it have passed after 10 years. Some people may just ignore or who cares since this matter have been past over 10 years. But it's your choice of not running away and as you have mention before..." I just don't want this issue to nag at the back of my mind for another 10years" That's is what i admire you for

The definition of a kinder heart varies differently to people..To me, you sure deserve it haha