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**MaigicyuNinia** · 03-09-2008, 04:32 AM

part time child?
as a real parent, your job is never part time.

i totally understand your view, but how can you do that to a child. im sure every child deserves the 100% life with their parent. it's kinda selfish to be like... 'i'll see the child part time of the year.' how would that child feel knowing that their parent chose to be with them part time? you know?

Well most of the fathers I know are only part time parents, spending less than 10% of there time with the children, either due to divorce when the mother gets custody, or having to work a drudgery 12 hours a day 6 days a week to earn enough income for the privilege of every one else to spend time with the children, while there to tired to do anything after work but to eat and sleep. Men do not get the equal choices woman have to spend time with there children, that is the discrimination against men in our society, some thing that disgusts me immensely. I on the other hand want to exercise a choice of getting a child for at least 50% of the time, that is a better deal than most married men who get to spend less than 10% of there time with there child.

03-09-2008, 04:32 AM	#8
MaigicyuNinia Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 525 Senior Member	part time child? as a real parent, your job is never part time. i totally understand your view, but how can you do that to a child. im sure every child deserves the 100% life with their parent. it's kinda selfish to be like... 'i'll see the child part time of the year.' how would that child feel knowing that their parent chose to be with them part time? you know? Well most of the fathers I know are only part time parents, spending less than 10% of there time with the children, either due to divorce when the mother gets custody, or having to work a drudgery 12 hours a day 6 days a week to earn enough income for the privilege of every one else to spend time with the children, while there to tired to do anything after work but to eat and sleep. Men do not get the equal choices woman have to spend time with there children, that is the discrimination against men in our society, some thing that disgusts me immensely. I on the other hand want to exercise a choice of getting a child for at least 50% of the time, that is a better deal than most married men who get to spend less than 10% of there time with there child.
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