[WertyNtont]

I think that Thai-farang relationships can be intimate, but it takes a lot of work. The cultures and languages are very different and both sides have to make an effort to learn and understand the other. I did a lot of reading in books and on the Internet in an effort to learn about Thai culture and traditions. I asked many questions during our engagement, and made it clear that I really wanted to show respect and not lose face because of bad behavior on my part. Doing simple things like showing respect to family elders (e.g., wai to them and stoop when walking in front of them to show respect for their status) goes a long way toward laying the foundation for good relations. I can learn about another culture without making value judgments, which I think is very important.