"The truth can get you killed". Yes, of course. Not to over simply...It's a kind of freedon. That is live and let live. A thai, born in thailand and having gone thru the mores and culture can do whatever they pretty much choose that is well, wrong. However. Anyone who knows of these wrong things, by western standards, cannot speak of it. To anyone. The act is never to be mentioned in front, behind or crosswise to them. Honor is spoken of but it is a phoney honor. Loathsome, irresponsible, quite true. Seems like at times that some thai just don't give a .....