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**joOEMcheapSOFTWARE** · 01-05-2007, 08:52 AM

My girlfriend is a divorcee with 3 kids (they live with her ex-husband). She is the most wonderful woman I have ever met and to be honest I think he is real stupid not to treasure a woman like her. She is intelligent, beautiful and a really good woman and yet he had flirted around. Finally she divorced him when she could not take his nonsense anyone. As she was financially independent of him, she had her options I guess.

Irony of it all is that she is helping with the upbringing of her kids and still pays for 50% of their maintainance, cos she loves her children. It was these little things that attracted me to her in the first place.

I too made a mistake and married a woman who is never contented no matter how much I loved her and tried to meet her needs/wants. Took me 10 years to come to the conclusion that I can never satisfy her and gave up. Told her she is free to go look for the guy whom she can be contented with. And after a few months of solitude I opened my heart to look for the vision of the woman I have always wanted since I was 21. Never had the confidence that it is possible for any one person to match that vision until one day I met my Rida quite by accident. Wham, we literally swept each other off our feet, and it was love at first sight. haha, to think I was a skeptic of such an idea.

I am so glad I met her (the cousin of my buddy's girlfriend) when I visited my buddy's girlfriend and her parents, since her dad was going to have a major surgery. Now I have not only a woman whom I hope will be my soul-mate, she is also a more than capable help-mate in business as well. Plus her drilling me in speaking, reading and writing the thai language in her wanting to protect me from getting cheated in Thailand just because I dont know the language well. We tend to use formal thai because that is how she speaks on daily basis.

Yes, I do agree today (inspite of the many bad stories I see and hear), that a good thai woman will choose & treasure a loving and faithful man over a rich guy who flirts and has no real love for her.

Hoping that these 2 romantic lovebirds can get engaged this year and marry in about 2-3 years.

01-05-2007, 08:52 AM	#6
joOEMcheapSOFTWARE Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 430 Senior Member	My girlfriend is a divorcee with 3 kids (they live with her ex-husband). She is the most wonderful woman I have ever met and to be honest I think he is real stupid not to treasure a woman like her. She is intelligent, beautiful and a really good woman and yet he had flirted around. Finally she divorced him when she could not take his nonsense anyone. As she was financially independent of him, she had her options I guess. Irony of it all is that she is helping with the upbringing of her kids and still pays for 50% of their maintainance, cos she loves her children. It was these little things that attracted me to her in the first place. I too made a mistake and married a woman who is never contented no matter how much I loved her and tried to meet her needs/wants. Took me 10 years to come to the conclusion that I can never satisfy her and gave up. Told her she is free to go look for the guy whom she can be contented with. And after a few months of solitude I opened my heart to look for the vision of the woman I have always wanted since I was 21. Never had the confidence that it is possible for any one person to match that vision until one day I met my Rida quite by accident. Wham, we literally swept each other off our feet, and it was love at first sight. haha, to think I was a skeptic of such an idea. I am so glad I met her (the cousin of my buddy's girlfriend) when I visited my buddy's girlfriend and her parents, since her dad was going to have a major surgery. Now I have not only a woman whom I hope will be my soul-mate, she is also a more than capable help-mate in business as well. Plus her drilling me in speaking, reading and writing the thai language in her wanting to protect me from getting cheated in Thailand just because I dont know the language well. We tend to use formal thai because that is how she speaks on daily basis. Yes, I do agree today (inspite of the many bad stories I see and hear), that a good thai woman will choose & treasure a loving and faithful man over a rich guy who flirts and has no real love for her. Hoping that these 2 romantic lovebirds can get engaged this year and marry in about 2-3 years.
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