Its a dick measuring contest. The guy with the brightest blinding headlights wins. Nothing you can do about it, its a DR thing. The positive is that when you go out and buy eyeball burning headlights the others will recognize you as "the man" and will dim their lights. If they dont dim you are simply not bright enough and are not a real player. Other positive is that you will see the occassional horse, cow, person, moto, etc on the dark roads.