Yes, you are special, no doubt. When you read a article about Haiti or read an article written by Haitians there is a tendency for them to blame outside agencies, the USA, the UN, or Haitian Elites. The blame can certainly be spread around but in the case of sexual violence it can only be blamed on the perpetrator. I am a father of girls and boys, and have numerous nieces and have had sexual violence victims in my extended family. I don't trivialize violence of any kind, sexual or not. You may not like what I say - too bad - ignore me.