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**piramirra** · 02-24-2008, 03:42 AM

I was wondering what we do to attract what comes to us?

I consider myself a good person who lived through the idea that if i didn't need it then share. I always thought that when I was able to, i would do all in my power to help whomever was in my path needing help.

But I must be doing something wrong.

For example,

I first moved into an appartment and chose to introduce myself to the neighbor on the right. She turned out to be recently divorced, suffering a breakdown cos she lost her career and self-esteem through the process, and turned to welfare insurance.

Within the first meeting she had her skirts up showing me her recent scars from having a hysterectomy and cried telling me she could never have kids.

Over the next year, I helped her financially (for her meds and food), gave my free time (helping her get a job, taking her to the food bank, being her FRIEND)

Turned out she robbed me, and I found out she had conned others in the building.

How could i not have helped her I SAW her apt. she had NOTHING, needed food and friendship.

Next is the ex husband who sponged off me saying we were in it together during the rough times, then cheated on me and left cos he no longer FELT like being married.

In every job i get, the mean,control freaks who need someone to pick on are attracted to me and i find myself feeling like a victim and defensive.

I loaned a friend of mine an inspiring piece of artwork to help him het through tough times, he later sold it and moved away without notice

At 8 months pregnant, I found out my boyfriend with supposed anemia and or sleep disorder was a heroine addict, cleaned out my bank account, threatened my life and admitted that he had been using me for my kindness.

Finally when I was a kid, i used to make sandwiches for the poor and hand them out downtown, but stopped when i realized they were just throwing them out as soon as i turned around.

When do we help, how do we know? i don't want to be a doormat but don't want to be cold. And I DEFINITELY don't want to keep attracting bad energy.

02-24-2008, 03:42 AM	#1
piramirra Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 640 Senior Member	Bad energy I was wondering what we do to attract what comes to us? I consider myself a good person who lived through the idea that if i didn't need it then share. I always thought that when I was able to, i would do all in my power to help whomever was in my path needing help. But I must be doing something wrong. For example, I first moved into an appartment and chose to introduce myself to the neighbor on the right. She turned out to be recently divorced, suffering a breakdown cos she lost her career and self-esteem through the process, and turned to welfare insurance. Within the first meeting she had her skirts up showing me her recent scars from having a hysterectomy and cried telling me she could never have kids. Over the next year, I helped her financially (for her meds and food), gave my free time (helping her get a job, taking her to the food bank, being her FRIEND) Turned out she robbed me, and I found out she had conned others in the building. How could i not have helped her I SAW her apt. she had NOTHING, needed food and friendship. Next is the ex husband who sponged off me saying we were in it together during the rough times, then cheated on me and left cos he no longer FELT like being married. In every job i get, the mean,control freaks who need someone to pick on are attracted to me and i find myself feeling like a victim and defensive. I loaned a friend of mine an inspiring piece of artwork to help him het through tough times, he later sold it and moved away without notice At 8 months pregnant, I found out my boyfriend with supposed anemia and or sleep disorder was a heroine addict, cleaned out my bank account, threatened my life and admitted that he had been using me for my kindness. Finally when I was a kid, i used to make sandwiches for the poor and hand them out downtown, but stopped when i realized they were just throwing them out as soon as i turned around. When do we help, how do we know? i don't want to be a doormat but don't want to be cold. And I DEFINITELY don't want to keep attracting bad energy.
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