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**sitescools** · 02-26-2008, 08:28 AM

i agree with all you have a big heart. I also tend to want to help people with the physical things money food etc. but i have learnt now that sometimes just a little advice is more helpfull eg no food well then I would help them to find a source9information) to get food, not use mine. Imformation I find is more helpfull and if they are to lazy to use that imformation then I can no longer help them for the way I think if I give it over to them that is the easy way out for them, and most of the time that is what they want, and those people tend to have a knack for finding people like us. And you would probly find that you would help more by giving imformation then doing it for them. Dont beat yourself up over this just change helping tactics if that makes sense. anyway that is my 2cents into it.

02-26-2008, 08:28 AM	#4
sitescools Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 615 Senior Member	i agree with all you have a big heart. I also tend to want to help people with the physical things money food etc. but i have learnt now that sometimes just a little advice is more helpfull eg no food well then I would help them to find a source9information) to get food, not use mine. Imformation I find is more helpfull and if they are to lazy to use that imformation then I can no longer help them for the way I think if I give it over to them that is the easy way out for them, and most of the time that is what they want, and those people tend to have a knack for finding people like us. And you would probly find that you would help more by giving imformation then doing it for them. Dont beat yourself up over this just change helping tactics if that makes sense. anyway that is my 2cents into it.
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