I remember someone told me once, 'change the words 'have to' and 'should be' to 'choose'.' As in 'I choose to be doing this.' It gives power to your choices, and allows you to be in control. With THAT being said, lol..., I'm choosing to make scent samples to attach to my business cards. At 10am, I'm choosing to talk with my spiritual advisor, Joan! yay!