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03-22-2006, 10:28 AM
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ErnestTU
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Sometimes it is really hard to be the biggerperson when people are
acting petty and small. You have no choicethough really - your
conscience is such that it won't allow you to beany less. I do understand (even if I seem a bit off the wall sometimes lol).Here's
my advice (and of course you're welcome to take it or leave it)from
similar experiences: If she is ignoring you, she is either goingthrough
so much crap herself that she feels she can't communicate withyou right
now or she's playing a game or you're just always there forher and
she's taking it for granted without even knowing that.So, I would just give her space. I
did this recently with my sister. We are closer than ever now in away,
just because I didn't demand any time or care from her and alsoset up
my own boundaries, refusing to be used or manipulated. Unfortunately
(as you have discovered) human beings are far fromperfect and aren't
even aware of their crappy behaviour much of thetime. Because you are
aware, this hurts you. Hang in there - you are awonderful person and at
least you can live with yourself. Love you! xoxfont
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