[Avgustslim]

dear truth37421,

you do seem to understand and reason out certain facts that contribute to your fears but as far as my experience goes .....it is often the final outcome of any given situation or consequences that makes us fear.

what if you role-played and imagined the worst that could happen if you got to the point which you are afraid to face. is it losing a 'favourite spot' or a what you may think is a perfect job for now?

if there is a purpose to anything in life it involves risk. risk of going ahead and trying out what the results turn out to be. taking risks is a small step towards overcoming fear.

when you have mastered it ...you will just let it go, go with the flow and will surrender to whatever that comes your way..almost

hope this helps a little.
take care.

senta ra