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**NEWyear** · 08-17-2009, 06:04 AM

hi there, thanks for sharing your views. i'm sorry to hear about your trouble finding a partner.

david was mentioning in one of his blogs a while back about how strained relationships between males and females are today. it's possible that because women are coming into their power today, coupled with modern social pressures, they are very confused about what they really want. men and women who reach a particular point in their maturity tend to do better, but for young people it is very hard. then you are dealing with a spiritual awakening process which most people don't really know is going on, and finding someone who would be receptive to that would be very challenging. i can only think that things may get better in time and other doors will open later on.

just wanted to say i feel the same way and i've been pondering this for a while now. the last 5 years or so especially i've been doing a lot of wandering, searching, studying, etc. and in that same time period i have been without a girlfriend. i have tried to find a girl and it's extremely difficult, in my opinion, because of the tremendous odds against it. to find a mate that not only attracts you phsyically but mentally, and after raising your mental knowledge & awareness to such higher heights than average. fate has to allign us two souls together at just the right time & even then there must be that initial spark & pleasant conversation to make it to even exchanging numbers or whatever. there doesn't seem to be any particular place for meeting intelligent, attractive, & spiritual people either. and i live in austin too, which is considered to be pretty progressive & accepting. i know that there are girls out there for me, but i just don't know where to find them. i try not to let it get me down though with that same perspective that it's so rare, if it's meant to happen then it'll happen.

08-17-2009, 06:04 AM	#15
NEWyear Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 569 Senior Member	hi there, thanks for sharing your views. i'm sorry to hear about your trouble finding a partner. david was mentioning in one of his blogs a while back about how strained relationships between males and females are today. it's possible that because women are coming into their power today, coupled with modern social pressures, they are very confused about what they really want. men and women who reach a particular point in their maturity tend to do better, but for young people it is very hard. then you are dealing with a spiritual awakening process which most people don't really know is going on, and finding someone who would be receptive to that would be very challenging. i can only think that things may get better in time and other doors will open later on. just wanted to say i feel the same way and i've been pondering this for a while now. the last 5 years or so especially i've been doing a lot of wandering, searching, studying, etc. and in that same time period i have been without a girlfriend. i have tried to find a girl and it's extremely difficult, in my opinion, because of the tremendous odds against it. to find a mate that not only attracts you phsyically but mentally, and after raising your mental knowledge & awareness to such higher heights than average. fate has to allign us two souls together at just the right time & even then there must be that initial spark & pleasant conversation to make it to even exchanging numbers or whatever. there doesn't seem to be any particular place for meeting intelligent, attractive, & spiritual people either. and i live in austin too, which is considered to be pretty progressive & accepting. i know that there are girls out there for me, but i just don't know where to find them. i try not to let it get me down though with that same perspective that it's so rare, if it's meant to happen then it'll happen.
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