[JetePlentuara]

its sounds to me that this person (if singularly) is acting, as ra would say, as a catalyst. i would say that once you sit and think on it objectively, the soultion will become ever clear to you. but, you must remove strong emotional attatchment for the time of consideration so as to chose the actions that feel the most resonant to you. i'm not suggesting removing your polarity or positive lines of thought, but just plainly looking at it as say a referee might look at a sports game. once you see the answer, the forgiveness will follow shortly after and so will the complete release of harbored resentment for this treatment. you will see it as catalyst, and catalyst alone. then? i bet you probably wont be running into those kind of people too much anymore.

i have been a "door mat" to many as most of us here have, due to the fact that we simply cant fathom treating someone in a similar fashion, which is usually negative and controlling. i stepped past these encounters i was having with those who wish to take advantage by self-respect. i stopped letting these people use my light and love to feed their own emptiness while abusing me, simply due to the fact that i started to respect myself more than to be treated in such a way. i am willing to give and not recieve, but not when it becomes abusive.

heres what david wilcock has previously stated that is a good window into this situation:

"if you dont love and respect yourself, you are going to attract people that also dont love and respect you."

...not saying that you have low self-esteem or dont love yourself, but maybe this yht higher you saying, "hey dude, lets work on this a bit so that we are ready for the harvest!"