[Amirmsheesk]

hello stargirls

yes , at some stages in their life pple can be fragile and in other stages they may have learned to cope with it. pple that seem to be very strong can also be the meost vulnerable, since they hide theit vulnerability away and when they finally in the face of too much oppression give in, they "break" instead of bend. if on the contrary one has been allowed to show ones vulnarable sides one may instead "bend" like a straw of grass and then more easily come back on track.

of course the "victimrole" is also something one can derive some pervertive "positive" gains from, but all "weakness" is not a sign of victimhood. to always be "happy and strong" is not a true sign of strenght, but to deal with the wounds and sorrows on a deeper level, to find the truth about ones shortcomings and traumas and rise through them, not above them, will give you true strength and happiness. as the dalai lama states, pain has to be accepted to gain true happiness.

is shining, i just played larrys cd and i feel happy at the moment. one hour ago i was down. everything changes all the time.

"to everything turn turn turn, there is a season , turn turn turn, and a time for every purpose under heaven"

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