[PeterPatrickJohn]

another approach is not to worry about it things will occur in your life that will let you know without a doubt, but the most important thing is that you just put yourself out there and raise the vibes of everything around you by being yourself and seeking to aid others when the call arises. the journey of discovery about your spiritual identity will become clearer after you've made conscious decisions that demonstrate that you can "handle the truth". so basically, just seek out the catalyst to experience love and connection with those around you, and act with empathy...and those you were meant to meet, the visions you were supposed to have, the words you were supposed to hear, will reveal themselves.
just get out there and bask in anothers smile :d