[snislarne]

he is lost and limited in the reality he chose. there are crucial things he hasn't realised in this life, there must be a lot of hate and bad experiences, much cynism.
imagine this person without all this cynism, a person that's realised that love is the most important thing there is, the only thing that matters when all material meaninglessness is taken away. that his good sides isn't completely dominated by his bad.
this is a person you'd like to be with. see past the flesh and accept him, knowing that he likely won't make this ascension but you will see him one day, then you can forgive him, and more importantly, he will realise that he wants to be forgiven.