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**Muesrasrs** · 11-14-2008, 10:27 PM

i went up to see the family a few minutes ago and he was a real pleasure to be around. he really made an effort!

i think it's cool. the pattern has happened before in my life that when i allow myself to feel the feelings associated with it, (the anger), then it works out for the better.

also, my behaviour toward him has changed significantly because of all this. (for the better!)

or perhaps, and more likely, it isn't directly associated with me and he is the one that made the positive effort and things are better for that reason.

i think his tv, from now on, is going to be his and that is his boundary. probably not my most compassionate not to understand that.

11-14-2008, 10:27 PM	#10
Muesrasrs Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 382 Senior Member	i went up to see the family a few minutes ago and he was a real pleasure to be around. he really made an effort! i think it's cool. the pattern has happened before in my life that when i allow myself to feel the feelings associated with it, (the anger), then it works out for the better. also, my behaviour toward him has changed significantly because of all this. (for the better!) or perhaps, and more likely, it isn't directly associated with me and he is the one that made the positive effort and things are better for that reason. i think his tv, from now on, is going to be his and that is his boundary. probably not my most compassionate not to understand that.
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