[ensuppono]

being honest and expressing your truth even if it slaps someone in the face is not necessarily always an infringement, there's a grey area here i'm sure.

i like to tell people the truth about things, especially when they are asking, but a lot of times i feel myself just not saying anything b/c i don't want to infringe on their life and their decisions. but then again, it makes me sad to see someone i care about going down a path that is almost certain to turn out negative. many times, i have already been down that same path, and was lucky enough to get out and learn from it and become positive. i feel like not telling them the warnings is depriving them of insight they might need to "see the light..." causing me to be not a good friend.

but then again, my own experience of feeling lost and confused was cured only by my own intuition, soul search, listening to my emotions and prayers for the right guidance to steer me a long the right path. nobody could tell me anything before that..others telling me how i should think and act just made me want to do what i wanted even more! i hope i'm making sense lol.

so i guess i just agreed with the fact that it is best for people to learn their own way..b/c many people are stubborn..at least i know i was and still can be :d