gentleness, knowing that people's views are sacrosanct and perfect, and will offer them their road home. patience. we'll all get there. force in making people see belies the fact that none of us have a better view of reality than any other. none of us can define for another the validity of their road. we're all in mystery, and confusion. this is the way it's supposed to be. a gentle offering, made without the strong arm, or expectations. your path is perfectly becoming, as is for all. rest assured. wow - if i could only tell you what i've gone through just to be able to breathe - to beg, lie, borrow and steal. a benign finger pointing, nothinng more. that is wisdom, and love. mark