[aideriimibion]

beautifully said. now what i am wondering is why you are doubting your thoughts, they are so beatiful. in my opinion you are very right. everyone is responsible for their feelings and thoughts. it is noone else's fault you feel hurt. everyone has the power to make a decision, to choose whether they feel hurt or whether they look at things differently. most people blame their feelings on others because it is easier to do so, than to actually own up to their decisions. "she got me angry", "he made me upset", lalala.....noone got you, you allowed yourself to become angry or feeling the way you do. maybe you can pass on the rest of your thoughts, im interested in knowing what they are.