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**kilibry** · 07-09-2008, 02:08 AM

@ken :

you can't. not unless the others involved are as mature as you are about it, because you will be inviting them to the dark side if they aren't. also, be perfectly honest with yourself about how you would feel were you on the opposite side of whatever arrangement you are currently considering.

i struggled with the idea of polyamory for a long time, and finally came to the conclusion that, even if it's not wrong, it's best for me to refrain out of compassion for the girls who would suffer otherwise. also, it's good training for the soul to learn how to invest deeply in one person at a time.

07-09-2008, 02:08 AM	#7
kilibry Join Date Nov 2005 Posts 485 Senior Member	@ken : you can't. not unless the others involved are as mature as you are about it, because you will be inviting them to the dark side if they aren't. also, be perfectly honest with yourself about how you would feel were you on the opposite side of whatever arrangement you are currently considering. i struggled with the idea of polyamory for a long time, and finally came to the conclusion that, even if it's not wrong, it's best for me to refrain out of compassion for the girls who would suffer otherwise. also, it's good training for the soul to learn how to invest deeply in one person at a time.
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