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well yeah, forgiveness is easier explained than practiced. perhaps the christians make the short cut by believing in how much their god is unconditionally willing to always love and forgive them and when they accept this forgiveness, they will be able to forgive others.....yet as i said, christians don't see themsevles as inherent "saints" unless they let chrit's forgiveness live in them. they, like everyone else, struggle to believe in forgiveness.

remember though, forgiveness doesn't mean that you're okay with something wrong, it just means you choose not to focus on it. it's the choice to never bring certain things to memory, nor let any of the negative emotions that come with it to control your life. in some sense it's not like it doesn't exists and it can't really effect you. sure it can effect you, but it doesn't have to if you choose not to focus on it. in a sense, you make it exist with your mind, then you self-destruct. everything in reality has a cause and effect, so you can't pretend that negativitity can't effect you, but you have the choice not to keep negativity in your mind.

god's love is always at the door of our hearts ready to give us the power to love. remember that you wouldn't exist if god didn't love because love is all there really is, no? our lives are sustained unconditionally, even when we take it for granted. we have the power to really live or self-destruct, if even possible, sink down to the first density o.o lol i dunno, just a random thought...