[praboobolbode]

i'm not quite sure i completely grasp what you're saying...but then again the only person that really hurt is the one that wants to project their pain on you. lol

you could say that things like fear and pain only exist in ego-centered perceptions and we can't deny that it exists....but it doesn't have to effect us if we see things through love. you can still atleast forgive the very intent or idea of pain, no? i've always thought forgiveness was a characteristic of unconditional love (or "grace"). maybe it's only a way of us looking at it i guess...perhaps something way to divine to put in actual human words.