[zoneouddy]

non-attachment
non-judgment
non-resistance i think you are analysing things to much... so much your actually worried about not doing the right thing personally i think it is our reaction to everything in our lives that shows us what we need to work on, at least in my experience. or should we just put our trust in faith and simply let things be this is an interesting question. it's difficult watching someone else suffering. for quite a lot of my life i used to feel like i had the weight of the world on my shoulders, also that i had no right to be happy as long as there were all those suffering out there sometimes i think we just have to throw our thoughts out to the universe (in this case this wonderful forum) and the answers come tumbling in.

i am now thinking that with myself that i have been judging these experiences too much and feeling responsible for them and then also feeling that it is up to me to "fix" them. when in fact all is as it should be and there is nothing to fix. sometimes that is hard to grasp when people are suffering.


we do create our own reality however so does everyone else.

. hes probably having the time of his life having hour long conversations about pink floyd records those were the days!! it can be difficult being a mother. i know that i did exactly the same thing at the same age and i try not to be a control freak but my husband is of the mind (even though he starting partying when he was a lot younger) that we should kick him out for this behaviour.

i don't have that extreme a view by any means i just don't think i should encourage drinking and drug use. there are many no going back drugs out there these days so i can't help being a little worried.

thanks for all your advice everyone.

take care,

love megan