[glasscollector]

it kind of makes you wonder how to behave or respond when some one is suffering in your presence even death itself is a confusing experience.

but if you think about it in energy terms if you were suffering or dieing would you like the people around you to be projecting there confusion and torment at you or joy and happiness .

i have noticed that people my self included tend to mimic those around them selves to blend into the crowd so to speak so they don't stand out or appear odd when in reality they don't feel the same as what they are projecting.

better to be positive and happy and express it when the alternative is to hide your self behind guilt... unless you are the cause of the suffering that is.
another odd thing that i have noticed is that some times people whom are suffering almost expect you to suffer with them but i believe this to be a western type mind set as
those in third world countries seem to be happy regardless of there predicament.

of course they would prefer to have food shelter and safety who wouldn't but mostly they seem to stay positive, i am sure most westerners would give up and die long before they
reached the physical state that people in a third world country manage to endure.

being miserable when your not is dishonest to say the least not to mention a waste of ones time better to share your happiness and joy while you have it i say.