[DoctorAlexandro]

been there.
will spare everyone the personal details.
at the time it was the worst thing that had ever happened to me.
but, because of hanging on, prayer and going through it, i eventually met someone totally different.
it didn't happen right a way.
it may not have worked if i had met my present wife first because i / we would not have been as mature.
somewhere in the literature it talkes about how we plan the big events in our life before we incarnate.
be patient and just do the best you can, one day at a time.