hi! isn't nature wonderful? i absolutely love it! the re-birth of spring is most definitely my favorite time of the year. i see no reason why you can't be both! lol i am also a programmer, but am a gardener as well (among many many other "titles". leave polarity behind. you are much more than "this" or "that". stick the word "and" in there and embrace what your heart desires. just be sure to do so with the guidance of your higher self! much peace and love to you and the all! will