[Arbinknit]

-one of the best things is to keep on smiling, at every pair of eyes you see...
-be a non judgemental soundboard for any and all who need it, including and especially strangers...
- get out there and let your light shine! just spend time out in public etc so if anyone feels drawn to you, you are there for them...
-never hold anger, or a grudge...as soon as you feel anger, try to get to the root of it and find forgiveness immediatly, even if you don't ever show someone your angry, your thoughts can and will still effect them...
-spend time with people who obviously need it, lonely, mabey not so appealing at first people, help them come out of thier shells through unconditional (but not enabling) friendship.
-as above, spend and give as much love towards (without letting them effect your attitude) the down trodden and judged, so they can learn to forgive themselves and seperate themselves from their mistakes..
- teach a man to fish, don't give him a fish (tough love) empathise by telling them ways you got better, but let them do it for themselves, give them that satisfaction and dignity, without holding their hand, or "helping" in any way besides "coaching" and "listening" ......

to be continued....my 3 1/2 year old just threw his ball behind the tv, lol....i can catch good with one hand, but i guess that was a bad throw i just did, lol.