if i feel frustrated with someone, or "humanity" , i know it's me, not them. they are my thoughts, my feelings, coming from me. there is no way i can judge anyone else, when i just have to honestly look at myself and know that it's all in me too. i may see things a certain way, and for example the people in this forum see things similarly, but does that make it necessarily true? it's only true for us, at this time, subject to change, always change.