[Smalmslobby]

ok, i didnt finish your story enitrely, wich i shoud have before posting earlier. >.< seems to me that you are helping other out, and i feel that is good. for me, personally, i really dont drink, so its easy for me to refuse. but, you can always say, i am qutting drinking beer, but if u would like to toast, then get me a water, or tea, or whatever else u would like to drink that the location you will be at serves. i dunno. i do know how some people get a little pushy ... especially friends. if you truely want to stop, and it is time, then you will. when will that happen? remains to be seen. i hope some of these rambleings help you out in any way. = )