maybe i don't understand what you're trying to say. when you say release and at a distance, does that mean to remove yourself from their presence but still love them? in that case, yes, that is possible, because it is the physical presence and the inablility to deal with issues in our present conditioning that causes the problems, in my opinion. i sort of object to all this looking to the future as being some kind of answer to all the problems. the only future we have is the one we are creating in this moment. and yes, we are attempting to create that reality where we will be fulfilled, and not held back by restrictions actually created by us in the first place. there's no logic in any of it. logic seems to be taking a leap into the great unknown. we're left with questions and paradox and so be it. it's all good.