[BrainTop]

it seems like such a paradox to me when i am told that what is truly important in life is the love you share with other people but then i am told it is not healthy to need the other person. well if the love shared between people is so important then how is it that i don't need it? it seems to me that you have nothing without other people to share it with. this has always been a big issue with me in my life because i have lost a lot and the fear of losing anyone again keeps me in an unbalanced state of mind. i need to learn how to move past this barrier before i can have the positive, successful life that i want.

anyone have some advice on this, please?

my humble gratitude,
foo