[neniajany]

hmm i think we are here for the experience of it all and to be not be fearful about that experience and to be at least positive and accepting of the things that are imbalance because we are separated from the one.

i think that with love you need full and total acceptance not just partial so we also need not to be interfering with somebody's free will but rather accept the experience without attachments or judgments to them. with acceptance come wisdom together with love because you can then easily put yourself in another person's shoes and see the world through their eyes. this is why the experiencing experience without fear here is probably the most important aspect of being here.

you have to remember that outside the realm of eternity we only see duality in things and contradiction because of the 'distortion'. the perception of time is one (it doesn't really exist, it is only there because we expoerience in motion and movement), as well as seeing things on contrast and opposites (good vs bad, night and day,light and darkness etc).

the need part now borders on feeding the ego self and that now becomes sts situation. you have to be balanced in terms of loving and accepting and do this with wisdom and too much of the same thing (like needing somebody too much and relying on somebody too much) is feeding the negative influence. i hope this makes sense.