[Seilehogshell]

here is the situation, point blank...i do not like my youngest brother's girlfriend one bit. just the sight of her makes my blood boil sometimes. she hasn't done anything wrong to me, in fact, she's never spoken a word to me in the couple of months they've been dating.

i don't want to feel these horrible feelings towards her, but i find it very difficult to look at her in a positive light. my brother is 18, doesn't work or go to school, but does smoke a lot of herb. she is 16 and goes to independent studies 2 days a week which means she is always at our house. she is very loud, obnoxious, walks around like she owns the place, and comes across as very rude because she will walk right by you and not acknowledge your presence. or in other words, she is 16 haha.

i'm not the only one that doesn't like her. in fact, nobody except my brother likes her. we all just get bad vibes from her. he's never been a good judge of character. we don't get good vibes from his friends either. but thats another topic haha.

i'm reaching out for advice on how i can try to change my perception of this girl because i don't want to hate her. i don't want to feel this way about anyone. its very rare for me to feel this way toward anyone and i don't like it. please help me find it in my heart to accept this child for who she is. i'm sure there is a reason she has come into our lives, i just don't fully understand why yet.