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Old 07-02-2008, 08:29 PM   #9
gWhya5ct

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i know from experience that it's hard to watch a sibling "make the wrong choice in partner". so we thought. i do think it takes two to tango, and that we tend to react to one another in a relationship. so if one is rather negative, then it will make it hard for the other. but then i still believe that people can change!
you've gotten some great advice here from "family"!
i also say that "actions speak louder then words", in that her actions could be speaking of something that is tormenting her inside. ? my "attitude" when i was a teenager reflected bottled emotions. i like to live by "walking in their shoes" to try and understnad what they may be going through. those are often the ones who need to be loved; and the kind of love that dwells within, that comes from our infinite creator!
and that this will also make you stronger in character. so long as we don't hang around the negative too long. meaning, that if it's dragging us down, then we need to find positive! i find this to be true.
just my thoughts....and hope they help along with the other incredible advice!
blessings of love and joy to you and all!
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